At the end of the day, remember he vowed through thick and thin, in sickness and in health. No matter how you look, just the thought of this gesture will put him in the mood and make him smile.

2.    Wine-and-Candle Night

A gal doesn’t have to be wild to get her guy’s mindset on sex. In fact, nothing sets the mood like a good bottle of wine and a few softly flickering candles.

Pick a special night and send the kids packing with grandma and grandpa or a favorite babysitter. Then get out that dusty cookbook and create a sensual feast. Top it off with a favorite Chardonnay, a few candles... and voila -- it WILL be a night to remember.

3.    Sexy Surprise Lap Dance

The day and age of lap dances being reserved for seedy strip clubs has come and gone.  Home lap dances for the hubby or significant other are hot.

Approach this mood-setting gem in one of two ways. The first is to get some solo practice and learn how to give one heck of a lap dance. There are even books and videos that teach some slick moves.

For those feeling social, consider taking a pole dancing or burlesque class. These types of classes have taken off like wildfire. And best of all, participants burn calories while perfecting the moves of professionals.