Swollen Lymph Nodes
Swollen lymph nodes are a sign of many illnesses, and may not be an immediate indication that your partner has an STD. However, if your partner had unprotected sex and experiences swollen lymph nodes, it may be wise to request that he undergo an STD screening, because swollen glands are an early symptom of such diseases as syphilis and HIV. Only a test can rule out an STD, and you may want to have yourself screened as a precaution if you have reason to believe that your partner may have contracted an STD.
Signs of General Illness: Fever, Flu-Like Symptoms and Fatigue
If you feel run down after unprotected sexual intercourse, don’t assume that you’re just coming down with a cold. General flu-like symptoms, ranging from fever and body aches to fatigue and nausea, are all signs of an STD as well as a general illness. Most STDs can be treated with antibiotics and are relatively easy to cure, so get yourself checked.
Even if your partner doesn’t have any of the symptoms above, he or she may still be sick. It’s important to get checked for STDs regularly, even if you’re in a committed relationship, and there are other steps that you can take to minimize your risks of contracting an STD:
● Use A Condom! Condoms are the best form of protection for sexually active people against both STDs and pregnancy. For oral sex, use a condom or latex square.
● Cut Down on Alcohol. Research shows that alcohol consumption, as well as recreational drug use, lead to unprotected sex.
● Talk With Your Partner. Sharing sexual histories and past diagnoses is essential to keeping you both safe and healthy.